Things got heated between Dylan Yeandle and Pattiya Phillips in a new episode of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way. Dylan told Pattiya she has a “chronic addiction” to spending. He was clear: if she doesn’t change, there won’t be a wedding.
“I haven’t seen the changes,” Dylan said seriously. “I need to see those changes before we commit and get married. It’s an addiction that you have. It’s a chronic addiction. It’s detrimental. Love, it’s gotta stop. You brought me to tears with it. Cause it’s like, when is this woman going to stop spending?”
Pattiya shot back instantly. “Now.”
Dylan didn’t hold back. “There’s been many months where you have not had the money for rent and I’ve had to pay it for you.”
Pattiya rolled her eyes. “What are you talking about? That’s because you put me in that place.”
That comment hit a nerve. Dylan replied, “You’ve got a very deluded view of what has and hasn’t happened.”
90 Day Fiancé: “I Accumulated This Debt Because Of You!”
Pattiya later admitted she didn’t realize how much her spending habits upset him. “I didn’t know, like, deep down how you really felt about my spending issue in the past,” she said softly.
But when Dylan reminded her that she’d had debt before they even met, she fired back. “You’re right. But I accumulated this debt because of you.”
Dylan wasn’t having it. “The debt that you had when you met me, whose fault was that?”
Pattiya then explained how her financial problems started. “When I met Dylan, I just moved to Vegas and I was in a lot of debt. As performers, strippers, we had to look the part. And it’s expensive. We had to tan, do the nails, the hair. You have to spend to make it.”
She insisted she’s changed. “I do not spend like I used to, babe. I’ve learned from my mistakes. But I swear, honestly, I feel like it’s your fault, you know, it’s your fault.”
Dylan shook his head. “Every time there’s a problem, it’s like it’s my fault. It just seems easy to blame stuff on me and then just keep spending.”
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Pattiya’s frustration boiled over. “It makes me mad,” she said. “This last debt was because of him. If it bothers you, help me. Help me pay it. It’s almost like he wants to see me suffer through the debt. Like, let’s watch you squirm and see what you can do.”
She promised she’s not the same woman she used to be. “You’re not that same girl anymore. I’ve gotten better. Now that we’re together, it’s going to be your money and I’m not going to be doing that.”
But she also made a bold ultimatum. “If he doesn’t propose, I’m done. I’m moving on.”
90 Day Fiancé: Viewers Question Their Relationship
The explosive conversation left viewers divided. Many couldn’t decide who was right, or who was more out of touch.
One commenter wrote, “Something about him seems off. I can’t put my finger on it. They have a strange dynamic.” Another added, “Easy money always goes fast,” hinting at Pattiya’s past as a performer in Las Vegas.
But most questioned Pattiya’s logic. “Why is she not explaining how this time it’s his debt?” one asked. Another joked, “If it’s his debt, he needs to cough that 50% up ASAP. 😂 But something about him… I just can’t. Something seems off about boul.”
Is Dylan Yeandle right to call her spending an addiction?
