Greta and Matthew’s story has been building for weeks. In the latest episode of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way, it all finally spills over. In their small English kitchen, Greta shares a heartbreaking truth. It quickly shows viewers the state of their relationship.
“I am pretending to be the person that I think that he needs,” she confesses while stirring a vegan shepherd’s pie.
It’s one of the most honest lines this season. It sets the tone for their biggest crisis yet.
She continues opening up, revealing that their relationship has shifted drastically.
“I have been feeling shifts in my relationship with Matthew in the past six months.”
This wasn’t dramatic, over-the-top reality TV acting. This was the look of someone who feels trapped, overwhelmed, and exhausted.
90 Day Fiancé: Greta Admits She No Longer Feels “Free” In The Relationship
Greta says she shares less of her life now. She feels less connected and doesn’t recognize their old dynamic.
Her line that hit the fandom straight in the gut:
“I think you’re with the right person whenever you’re in a relationship that makes you feel like you can fly.”
Then she admitted that she doesn’t feel that way at all, not anymore.
This moment made viewers realize that something deeper is happening. It’s more than just culture shock.

90 Day Fiancé: Dinner Turns Into A Painful Reality Check
Matthew walks in cheerfully. “Honey, I am home!” he announces. He has no idea about the emotional storm brewing just five feet away in the kitchen.
As they sit down to eat, Greta fights tears, barely able to keep her voice steady. Matthew remembers their earlier car talk about the future. He’s trying to figure out what’s wrong now.
Greta attempts to explain why she feels distant. Matthew listens, but it’s clear he has no idea how lost she feels.
The whole scene feels like the quiet moment before a storm neither is ready for.

90 Day Fiancé: Their Plans For The Future Are Already Pulling Them Apart
This isn’t the first time Greta has hinted that she’s struggling.
Fans saw her panic during the house tour. This was especially true when Matthew mentioned he wanted twins. Her face instantly froze.
She later admitted his comments put “a rock in her stomach.”
Their visions for life couldn’t be more opposite:
- Matthew wants a peaceful small-town lifestyle
- Greta dreams of a modern city life with independence
- He’s ready for a family
- She’s not remotely there yet
Even their living situation hasn’t helped. She didn’t want to stay with his parents, didn’t feel welcome, and hated how cramped everything felt.
The pressure keeps building, and she’s running out of ways to hide it.
90 Day Fiancé: Fans Think Greta Is Reaching Her Breaking Point
Viewers have debated their compatibility for weeks. Now, the preview confirms what many suspected.
One fan wrote:
“He doesn’t have a house, barely has a plan, and expects her to build his dream life with him.”
Another added:
“She left everything behind. Of course she’s drowning.”
Others defend Matthew, saying Greta knew what life in a small English town would look like.
But both sides agree on one thing:
These two don’t seem built for the same future.