The breakup came fast.
Too fast.
In Season 7 of 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way, Matthew shared how shocked he was when Greta walked away. The split caught him completely off guard.
In Episode 15, aired on December 15, 2025, Matthew met with his father, Mark. They discussed how everything fell apart just days after Greta came to England.
“Very Quickly. Very Soon. Very Unexpected.”
Matthew did not sugarcoat the shock.
“It’s just a lot. Very quickly, very soon. Very unexpected,” he said.
Greta had only been in England for four days.
Matthew believed they were starting their life together.
Instead, he drove her to a hotel and returned home alone.
His parents did not see it coming either.
Who does that?? Move to another country for someone you knew you had fallen out of love with. Greta is weird as hell. #90DayFiance #90dayfiancetheotherway pic.twitter.com/WeVQuUQngb
— ✨✨ (@Jlola__) December 9, 2025
A Sleepless Son and a Concerned Father
Mark immediately noticed something was off.
Matthew admitted he had not slept.
His mind was racing.
When Mark asked if Matthew sensed the breakup coming, the answer was clear.
“I feel like I was just driving down the road and a plane hits me from the sky,” Matthew said.
The metaphor said everything.
Fuck Greta, this is cruel. She never should have moved. #90dayfiance #90dayfiancetheotherway pic.twitter.com/s9rQlF7JKE
— Realitytrash (@realtimetvbinge) December 9, 2025
No Fight. Just Silence.
Matthew told his father he wanted to reach out to Greta.
Just a message.
Just to check if she was okay.
He stopped himself.
“But I can’t,” he explained.
“She just wants that space and maybe that’s the best thing for now.”
Mark pushed back gently.
Some things are worth fighting for, he said.
Matthew disagreed.
“There was no fight.”
Mark’s response was heavy.
“Your fight has just begun.”
Greta please just go home. Save Matthew, yourself and us already #90dayfiance #90dayfiancetheotherway pic.twitter.com/abshaHPUeL
— RIP Marshmallow 🌈 (Certified Pasta Hater) (@Jaded_Chinx) December 8, 2025
Different Views on Love
As the conversation deepened, Matthew shared his perspective on what went wrong.
He suggested Greta expected love to feel exciting all the time.
Constant energy.
Constant thrill.
Mark answered honestly.
“That’d be lovely if you could have that. But life is hard.”
He admitted the speed of the breakup upset him.
He did not want the relationship to end like this.
Why Matthew Asked His Dad to Step In
Matthew revealed why he sent Mark to speak with Greta directly.
She respected him.
She listened to him.
Matthew hoped his father could help bring clarity.
Not force a reunion.
Just understanding.
Mark agreed to talk to her if she was open.
Matthew said he needed one thing above all else.
Clarity.
Closure Over False Hope
Matthew made one thing clear.
If the relationship truly ends, he wants to know they tried.
He wants to say they made the effort.
For now, he is doing the hardest thing.
Waiting.
Giving space.
Letting Greta figure out what she wants, even if it means losing her.
Why This Moment Hit Viewers So Hard
This was not a screaming match.
Not a cheating scandal.
Not a slow fade.
It was sudden.
Quiet.
And devastating.
Matthew did not lose his temper.
He lost his future overnight.
