Patrick Mendes seems ready to proceed with his divorce from Thais Mendes, whether she joins in or not. New court filings reveal that the 90 Day Fiancé star has made a legal move. This step could greatly affect his marriage and custody battle.
Court records show that Patrick requested a default summary disposition. He claimed Thais did not respond to his divorce petition on time. The filing could potentially allow the case to move forward much faster. And it may have major consequences for both sides.
90 Day Fiancé: Patrick Wants Sole Custody Of Their Daughter
A key revelation in the court documents is about the couple’s daughter, Aleesi. Patrick is looking for sole legal custody. He also wants primary physical custody of his 3-year-old.
The parents have been sharing parenting time since early May, according to the filings. Aleesi spends four to five days a week with Patrick and three to four days with Thais. For many viewers, that detail may be the most emotional part of this story.
While relationships end, children often become the center of the most difficult decisions.
90 Day Fiancé: The Divorce Is Becoming More Serious
Patrick originally filed for divorce in May. Thais received divorce papers and must respond by a legal deadline. Patrick now claims that deadline has passed without a response.
As a result, he is asking the court to move forward with a default judgment. If approved, the court might agree to many of the requests in his original filing. This could avoid a long legal battle. At this stage, the court has not issued a final ruling.

90 Day Fiancé: Fans Are Watching A Very Different Story On TV
This situation is unusual. Viewers are watching Patrick and Thais work on their marriage on 90 Day: The Last Resort. The couple is trying to fix years of tension with therapy and counseling. Off screen, legal documents suggest a very different reality.
The contrast is difficult to ignore. The show seeks reconciliation. However, court filings hint that the relationship may be beyond repair.
90 Day Fiancé: Trouble Had Been Building For Years
TLC reports that the couple had many challenges before their appearance on The Last Resort. Those struggles included financial pressure, a business setback, family tragedy, health concerns, communication issues, and disagreements about travel and spending.
The network previously explained:
“With trust and respect issues escalating, the couple is struggling to stay connected.”
Looking back, that description now feels even more significant.
90 Day Fiancé: Thais Hinted At A New Beginning
Earlier this month, Thais celebrated her 30th birthday on social media. At the time, many followers focused on one particular phrase in her post.
“Through every lesson, every blessing, and every new beginning.”
The message appeared innocent enough. Some fans now wonder if the divorce news hints at big changes happening behind the scenes.
90 Day Fiancé: Their Future Remains Uncertain
Patrick and Thais spent four years building a life together. Viewers saw their relationship face long-distance challenges, family disputes, immigration issues, and cultural differences. Now they appear to be facing their toughest challenge yet.
Neither Patrick nor Thais has publicly spoken in detail about the latest filing. A previous statement from their representatives urged fans not to rush to judgment.
“Domestic matters can be deeply emotional and complex.”
That may be the most accurate description of where things stand today. For now, the legal process continues.

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