New 90 Day Fiancé couple Josh and Catie are already making viewers uncomfortable.
And honestly, it is easy to see why.
In a preview for the upcoming episode, Josh meets two of Catie’s male friends. Not awkward enough? She openly admits she previously “banged” both of them multiple times.
Most people would completely lose it in that situation.
Josh somehow stays calm.
90 Day Fiancé: Even Her Friends Are Shocked By His Patience
The second Catie’s friends meet Josh, they realize how unusually tolerant he is.
“You roll through the punches way better than I ever could.”
That comment basically sums up the entire scene.
Josh remains polite and calm. In contrast, Catie’s friends say she becomes chaotic, impulsive, and hard to manage when drinking.
One friend explains:
“Catie can be wild.”
Then it somehow gets worse.
90 Day Fiancé: “Let’s All Make Out”
According to her friends, Catie becomes extremely impulsive while drinking.
She loves pushing people into random karaoke nights, hookups, and wild parties.
“Let’s all make out.”
That line alone probably explains why viewers are already worried for Josh.
Especially because Catie herself admits this pattern still happens.
She linked her behavior to intrusive thoughts from her OCD. She also said it’s hard to control those impulses when she’s drunk.
90 Day Fiancé: Josh Hears Everything, And Still Stays
The most surprising part of the preview is Josh’s reaction.
Catie directly asks whether he feels insecure meeting the men she hooked up with.
Honestly, it feels like she almost expects him to snap.
Instead, he calmly says he only cares whether she wants to be with him now.
That answer shocked viewers online. Most 90 Day Fiancé relationships fall apart over much less.
90 Day Fiancé: Catie Admits She Still Thinks About Them
Then another uncomfortable moment happens.
Catie admits she sometimes still thinks about past chemistry with previous hookup partners.
She quickly adds that she knows those situations did not work out.
Still, saying that directly to your fiancé while introducing him to former hookups is… a choice.
And honestly, fans already think Josh is ignoring massive red flags.
So Catie is just a loose alcoholic, bc everything after that "this is how I met my fiance" story was tragic#90DayFiance pic.twitter.com/GxprqjPelB
— Violate Brown (@BrownViolate) May 11, 2026
90 Day Fiancé: Viewers Think Josh Is “Too Nice”
One thing keeps coming up online:
people think Josh may simply be too patient for this relationship.
Especially because he already moved from the UK to Portland to build a life with Catie.
Viewers are now curious. Is he truly relaxed, or is he ignoring how chaotic this relationship might get in the long run?
And based on the previews, things are only getting messier from here.
