90 Day: The Last Resort finally brought Patrick Mendes’s brother John into a family therapy session with Patrick and Thaís Ramone, and it went about as smoothly as their history suggested it might. John and Thaís have never gotten along, and the session made that plain within minutes.
John was upfront about his mindset going in. “I think I’m right most of the time,” he said, while also acknowledging his behavior could create problems for Patrick and Thaís’s marriage. That is a fairly rare moment of self-awareness for someone about to spend the rest of the session proving the first half of that sentence.
Thaís admitted she hoped therapy would help, but she went in nervous, describing John as unpredictable. She said she has believed for a while that John doesn’t like her and actively wants her and Patrick to split up.
The Root Of Their Beef
Thaís traced her problems with John back to when she first moved to the US and lived with Patrick and John together. She described feeling consistently disrespected, saying John barely acknowledges her.
“He almost never says hi to her when he comes,” a member of the group noted, and Thaís agreed, adding that he never says goodbye either. She called it “very disrespectful.”
John didn’t dispute the behavior, just the framing. “Respect is earned with me. It’s not demanded,” he said, defending an incident where Thaís had once questioned him for drinking a beer at 10 a.m. He said he doesn’t like being told what to do and can get defensive when he feels attacked.
The Cosmetic Procedure She Hid From Patrick
John shifted the conversation toward trust, bringing up a cosmetic procedure Thaís got in Brazil that she had initially kept from Patrick.
Thaís didn’t deny it. “Yeah, I did lie to him about the procedure, but I told him already,” she said, framing it as something already resolved between her and her husband. John kept pushing, asking whether there were other things she had hidden from Patrick. Thaís grew frustrated, accusing him of manufacturing unnecessary drama in a session meant to be about family, not relitigating old issues.
An Accusation That Deserves A Closer Look
The most explosive moment came when John brought up Thaís’s recent solo trip to Brazil. He referenced a photo that appeared to show her somewhere with drinks and asked whether she had gone to a club.
Thaís denied it, explaining the location was actually a burger restaurant and that her daughter, Aleesi, was with her at the time. John acknowledged he already knew about the burger place, since Thaís had sent Patrick videos from there with their daughter.
He didn’t stop there. John said he had spoken with Thaís’s father and believed he’d heard something about an ex-boyfriend. Thaís’s reaction was immediate frustration. “Oh my God, here we go,” she said, and she left the conversation shortly after the topic came up, without directly answering.
This claim needs real skepticism attached to it. John said he doesn’t speak Portuguese. This means what he heard from Thaís’s father came through a language barrier. He admitted he can’t verify it directly. That doesn’t mean nothing happened. It means there is no actual evidence here, just an unconfirmed, potentially mistranslated claim from someone who has already shown he is willing to push hard in this exact conversation. Treating it as confirmed infidelity would be getting ahead of what the footage actually shows.
Patrick Steps In
As John kept pressing, Thaís repeatedly told him the issues were between her and Patrick and not his business. John disagreed, arguing that as Patrick’s brother, he was entitled to discuss things Patrick had shared with him, and accused Thaís of dodging his questions.
Eventually Patrick stepped in to defend his wife directly, reminding John that Thaís was his wife and that his tone had gone too far.
What This Session Really Exposed
The conversation ultimately wasn’t just about one disagreement. It touched trust, boundaries, and how much say John should have in his brother’s marriage. Beyond Thaís’s issues with John, the session raised a bigger question: Is the tension with Patrick’s family part of a larger pattern in their marriage? This adds to everything else that has come up this season.
90 Day couples often split due to in-law conflict. Thaís avoids family gatherings or slips into another room soon after arriving. Those details may seem small, but they can matter more than we think. Whether that pattern factored into Patrick and Thaís’s recently announced divorce, or whether it’s simply one more strained relationship in an already complicated family, is something the rest of the season will have to answer.
